What a Woman Needs

When I started writing this blog... I was going to call it "What a woman Wants". But then I realised it's not about what she wants, it's about what she needs and what she truly deserves.

This blog is for all the real men out there...

Fellas....It's so simple....

Firstly, you need to realise and appreciate what you have in the woman...and then all you have to do is;

• Love Her
• Respect Her
• Be honest
• Be her friend
• Stand by her
• Spend time with her
• Communicate with her
• Tell her how you feel
• Listen to the woman
• Talk to her
• Make an effort with her friends and family
• Try to understand her point of view
• If you fight, when she crys just hug her
• Appreciate her
• Be affectionate
• Make her laugh
• Make her smile
• Kiss her passionately
• Make REAL LOVE to her
• Be the man, be stern when you need to be but be nice
• Don't cheat and if you do or feel the urge - be honest about it - see what happens
• Apologise
• Have some fun every now and again
• Help her with the kids
• Come home for dinner
• Support her in her endeavours
• Travel with her
• Send her away on a holiday
• Buy her flowers
• Cook every now and then
• Share the cleaning duties
• Help her with the groceries shopping
• Fix it, Change it, Make it work
• Open the door for her
• Talk to her in the Car
• Take her out dancing or on a date
• Spoil her
• Work hard
• Pay the bills
• Work through issues
• Don't give up

Talk to her with LOVE....

"Talk to her" - India Arie

 LADIES don't settle for less, even it if takes time...

FELLAS, if she is a good woman, this is what you will get in return;

• Love
• Affection
• Loyalty
• Respect
• Honesty
• Commitment
• Open communication
• Dinner on the table
• A happy home
• A clean home
• A good friend, girlfriend, companion, wife, mother to your children
• Praise and gratitude
• Good "hot" sex
• Passion
• Happiness  
• Together forever
• Everything you need & more

"A Good man" - India Arie

Give a WOMAN what she needs appreciate the woman you have, be a good man, and you will become a better man and you will definitely get what you need in return!

AIN'T NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!

"Her" - Jaheim

Angel
:)
xxx

NAME CALLING

Why do people name call?

Perhaps it makes them feel better knowing they have be-littled another.

I prefer not to name call, but rather use creative words to get my point across, rather than actually directly call the other person a hurtful name.

I am not saying that I have not called someone a name before, in no way am proclaiming innocence, but I am saying over the years I have learnt to restrain myself from calling others a name, mostly because I feel really bad afterwards. 

It reminds of the age old saying "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me". I don't think this is true because no doubt people do get hurt by names others might call them.

Perhaps the name caller is angry, jealous and it is the only way they feel they can get the other person to listen to them or get their attention.

But perhaps before they call someone a name, they should take a breath and think of what it might do to the other person or think about how they themselves will feel in the after math.

I am one of those people that is VERY forgiving, I look for the good in people and always give people a second chance.

BUT I NEVER FORGET.....so if you have called me a name in the past, it is engraved in my head for life... No hard feelings but there is a memory.

Speak words of love and see what happens...

Angel
xxx